Serena, I'm not an attorney, and this is not legal advice. The way to revisit a divorce decree is through a Motion for Contempt/ Enforcement as your ex husband did. It doesn't seem likely that you could now hold him responsible for damages for his failure to refinance after all these years. And, unfortunately, and especially, because you didn't file a Motion for Contempt / Enforcement against him for failing to refinance within 60 days. The Court may take the attitude that you "sat" on your rights, waiting five years to hold him responsible. My suggestion is that you consult with an attorney to see if there is anything you can do.